Most law enforcement officers when asked
what we enjoy about law enforcement will say that we enjoy helping people.
Rarely do law enforcement officers speak about what may keep them up at night,
or what situations they have encountered that are the ones that live on with
them. For me, these are often the fatalities that I have been involved with
and, to be more specific, the fatalities that involved the children.
No fatality is “easy” to work. All of them are different and affect each
officer differently. However, I will say
that some memories do not fade. Specifically, I can remember night, day,
weather conditions and circumstances of each of the fatalities that involved
children. Whether that may be a cold, wintery night or a sunny, hot summer
day. ALL fatal crashes involving
children live vividly in my memory. The
one that I will speak of specifically is a rollover crash that involved a
7-year-old child who was not buckled in his seat belt.
It was a late winter night and I was at
home for the evening. I received a phone
call from dispatch that I was requested to respond to a fatal crash on I-35
involving one vehicle and one person had passed away at the scene. Upon
arriving, I looked at the scene and made my plan on how I was going to conduct
my investigation. I asked to see the
victim and the location of the victim.
What I saw that night will never leave my memory. In the median, a 7-year-old child was thrown
from the vehicle and succumbed to his injuries from the crash. This was one of the crashes that you had
always heard about, and hoped you never had to be involved in (a crash
involving a child). I worked the crash
and went back home to get some rest before the start of my next shift.
At this time in my life, my son was also
7-years-old, so this tragic incident affected me on a more personal level. I remember getting home in the early morning
hours. The first thing I did was go to my son’s room and I stood there watching
him sleep soundly. I then grabbed my son
and just hugged him. I hugged him long
enough that he had woken up, and I could tell that he was wondering what was
going on. I told him that I loved him
and that I would always love him.
Why am I telling such a personal story?
I want our public to realize that at any time in our lives tragedy can
occur. I was always told while growing
up that you never know what tomorrow brings.
So, when I witness such tragedy, I remember that saying. The last thing I want in my life is to leave
my children wondering if I love them. As
Put the Brakes on Fatalities day approaches, I think it is important for each
person in our society to reflect and realize that at any moment tragedy can
impact our lives and to remember that you never know what tomorrow brings. Therefore, hug your loved ones tight, and
always make sure they know that you love them.
Fatal crashes can be avoided, and
victims of crashes can survive the crash if we all take the time to use the
safety measures that we have been taught.
Our greatest future is our children and it is our responsibility as
parents to make sure that we protect our children the best we can from allowing
tragedy to impact their lives. Our
children learn from us, so buckle up and drive safe. This may save the life of you or your child
one day.
Casey Simoneau is a
Technical Trooper for the Kansas Highway Patrol
That's a tough assignment and I'm grateful for the work you and your fellow first-responders provide. I'm not sure how you all do it. So many of these blogs have been first-hand stories about how important a seat belt is in surviving or not surviving a crash. Thanks for sharing your story.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing a tragic event that most citizens will never know about or realize how a fatal crash with a child involved would have such an impact on a law enforcement officer. We take too many things for granted and should be extremely thankful for all you and other law enforcement officers do. All parents with children should read this story and realize the importance of wearing seat belts for their kids and themselves. Thanks again for sharing this personal story.
ReplyDeleteLarry Emig